Celebrating Fatherhood: Dispelling Myths and Honoring the Involvement of Black Fathers

As Father's Day approaches, it's an opportune moment to reflect on the invaluable role fathers play in nurturing and guiding their children. Yet, pervasive stereotypes—particularly the myth of the absent Black father—continue to overshadow the reality of dedicated, involved, and loving Black dads.

Challenging the Stereotype

The narrative of the uninvolved Black father has been deeply ingrained in media and popular discourse. But research tells a different story. A study by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) found that Black fathers are often more involved in their children’s lives than fathers of other races, especially in activities like feeding, bathing, dressing, helping with homework, and reading to their children.

Key data points include:

• 70% of Black fathers who live with their children bathe, diaper, or dress them every day, compared to 60% of White fathers and 45% of Hispanic fathers.

• More than 50% of non-resident Black fathers talked to their children about their day and ate meals with them several times a week.

  
  

These facts powerfully contradict the harmful stereotype and shine a light on the true commitment of Black fathers to their children.

The Power of Presence

Beyond statistics, real-life examples provide a more emotional connection to the power of fatherhood.

NBA star LeBron James is widely recognized not only for his achievements on the court but also for his devotion to his children—frequently showing up at games, mentoring his sons, and creating The LeBron James Family Foundation to serve other youth.

Another powerful example is Dwyane Wade, who has spoken openly about the importance of being a present, understanding father. His parenting is a bold example of leading with love, learning, and responsibility.

We see this same level of care in our own communities. As Tony Robinson, a father from one of the cohorts of our WE-Empower Family program, put it: “I have to go to a whole level 'cause the need is greater. And I've been tasked with even more. Not only do I have my immediate children, but my community as a whole to serve.”

Tony’s words highlight a reality often overlooked: many fathers, especially Black fathers, are not just raising families—they're anchoring entire communities.

Community and Collective Fatherhood

In many Black communities, fatherhood is a shared responsibility. Uncles, grandfathers, godfathers, coaches, and neighbors often play active roles in raising and mentoring children. This collective model reinforces the truth behind the proverb: it takes a village to raise a child.

This collective model of care is something we deeply value. We see it in programs like WE-Empower Family, where men step into their roles as nurturers, providers, protectors, and leaders—not only for their own children but for their neighborhoods as well.

Celebrating All Fathers

While we aim to correct the specific misconceptions that impact Black fathers, it's important to uplift all fathers and father-figures. From single dads to grandfathers stepping in, from those balancing careers with parenting to stay-at-home fathers—each plays a vital role in shaping the lives of children and the strength of our communities.

According to World Metrics, dispelling myths and shining light on the reality of fatherhood helps build more accurate, empowering narratives across all racial and cultural backgrounds.

This Father’s Day, let’s move beyond the stereotypes and honor the fathers who show up, care deeply, and lead with love. Whether in the home or the heart of the community, their presence matters.

We’re proud to support fathers like Tony—and so many others—who are creating strong families and even stronger futures. If our mission resonates with you, we invite you to explore how you can support this work—whether by spreading awareness, getting involved, or contributing to programs that make a lasting impact.

Together, we can honor the truth of fatherhood: present, powerful, and deeply connected.